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Posted in December 2010 | 5 Comments

Feliz Navidad

Warm Christmas Greetings to you all from San Cristobal de las Casas. We are thankful that arrived here in time to settle and experience the Christmas season in Mexico. I have noticed how many “holiday songs” apply to cold weather climates…we are not quite riding in a one horse open sleigh or making “Frosty the Snowman”, but we are still enjoying the anticipation of the birth of the baby Jesus.  And so each night we light our candle and sing some Christmas songs together as a family. Hilary especially is enjoying learning the actions to Away in the Manager and I am singing quite meaningfully the last verse “Be near me Lord Jesus” and while the first time I sang Little Drummer Boy Ezra cried (I guess I sang it a little too melancholicly) it gives good reason to share about a spirit of giving what we have and from our heart. But we also throw in some Jingle Bells too as Ezra likes to dance around and be jolly, and this to is an healthly and happy part of celebrating Christmas.

So it is the 23rd and already today we enjoyed a good walk up into the hills and mountains that surround this beautiful city with our fellow mcc worker Clifford, a young man from Zimbabwe who is 4 months through his 1 year term. While hiking in a t-shirt may not seem overly like a typical Christmasy thing to do, we thought we should take advantage of the 20 degree weather we were offered. (I should say small space heaters, warm drinks and blankets are very welcomed when the sun goes down and there is no central heat to turn up).

After being here for 3 weeks we have discovered plenty of places to buy a few Christmas presents. The number of places to buy things here is actually a little fascinating to Rick and I. The city has its own version of a Walmart – but in our community there are countless little stores that sell food, candy, clothes, toys, shoes, hardware and office supplies (you name it)  not to mention all the sidewalk vendors offering the same variety of items to purchase.  I haven’t even mentioned yet that about 2 min. walkaway is a large semi-outdoor market where we buy most of our fruits, veggies, fresh ground hamburger, spices and if I wanted a live turkey. We are also privileged to be only about 7 min. walk from a very well known artisans market showcasing beautiful blankets, clothes and jewelry from the local Mayan people and other places in Latin America. The streets in these areas have been overfilled these past few days making it hard for the cars to get through the pedestrians – local people, tourists from Mexico and many foreigners as well (the latter much more so close to the town center and more trendy area of town and less so in our own neighborhood).

But while the kids are quite excited to see Christmas presents under our nice little tree tomorrow – we are hopeful that through the songs we sing, the scripture we read and in our own actions as parents our children are also learning of the joy of the gift of Jesus.  This gift of a Savior and King. I rejoice that we are waiting again for his return someday and I am also  deeply thankful for the the work he has and continues to do in my own life – bringing a spirit of love, peace, humility, grace and generosity internally and hopefully at times through me to those of my family, friends and neighbors.

So while I admit the song “I’ll be home for Christmas” rings a little bit differently in my ears and might even come close to bringing a few tears. There are a multitude of things that bring me joy and give me reason to celebrate! Merry Christmas!

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Inside, Outside and Beside Culture

Greetings friends and family,

Lately its been rare that I’ve had a night with little to do.  The past two weeks has been bien ocupado with getting ready to move to San Cristobal, getting here, and getting settled into a house that was bare-ly empty when we arrived on the 7th of Dec.   We (our family plus Luke, a fellow MCCer who came with us to help us get settled) will always recall the comida we had that first afternoon, sitting on the floor eating a roast chicken and tortillas with our hands, thinking that in 3 hours it begins to get dark and cold.  Yet as we have experienced before, God’s provision had gone before us, and within several days (including many things that went much easier than anticipated), we were a functioning home unit.

San Cristobal is an interesting and lovely small city – the cultural heart of the Maya in southern Mexico, a tourist/traveler’s trap, and a regional trading point for the numerous Indigenous communities that surround the city.  What this means is that the city has a unique culture, one that we are only beginning to see and experience.  Perhaps a first observation has been that while local folks are very accustomed to the presence of foreign travelers, at least some of our neighbours seem somewhat surprised to see foreigners living in their neighbourhood.  Although I will certainly say that several folks in our Colonia have been quite friendly and welcoming.  Today we attended a Nazerene church in our area and were very warmly received; it was wonderful to be part of their worship and teaching.  For us, being a family with small kids, we believe that being part of a local church community may be one of the deepest and most fulfilling ways to understanding our Mexican brothers and sisters, and their culture from the inside.  This is one of our most earnest prayers…..please join us if you wish!

Life is beginning to settle down for us, and we are making every effort to enjoy the Christmas season, through the new and exciting ways of a new culture, but also to retain some of our traditional Canadian (or perhaps Mennonite) customs…..for example, Jacquie and the kids found a home of some American ex-pats who sell traditional Christmas baking….mmmmm…cappuccino squares with my coffee today!  As for Christmas plans we will likely stay around San Cristobal for the most part, although we hope to go to Tuxtla (capital city of Chiapas and significantly warmer!) for a couple of days as a family, and as well we will host my parents for a few days over the New Year (as they venture by bus from west-coast Huatulco to visit us in the mountains!).

I was able to participate in a youth workshop yesterday with my fellow workers from INESIN (the organization that I will work with for the next 3 years).  It was a youth forum on the Environment and the Bible.  I was grateful to be part of a team that is very like-minded to myself, and appreciated their rootedness in Scripture yet challenging of some of the default reactions of Christians in not considering and/or caring for creation.  Needless to say I am excited to become fully integrated into the INESIN team in the New Year – as a family we were invited to their Christmas comida, and we thoroughly enjoyed the close-knit sense of community amongst the staff and their families.

Wishing you all a very blessed and wonderful Christmas wherever you may be….

Posted in December 2010 | 2 Comments

Our New Home, etc..

Well it took some more effort than I’d hoped but here are some pictures of our new home in San Cristobal plus a few extra of our days in the past week.

Front Entrance and Porch

Check out the “San Cristobal” section of our photo gallery. The quality of the pictures aren’t as high, but I think they still will come out pretty clear on your computer. More details to come from Rick…when he gets a chance!

Posted in December 2010 | 1 Comment

Postive Peer Pressure

So this past week Ezra’s met a new friend, Ziko. His family is from Canada and they are in the last year of a MCC term serving in the state Guerrero.

Ezra's Twin - Ziko

While Ziko is just a couple of months older than Ezra their biggest connection was their like for superheroes. So much that before he could say his name Ezra simply called him “my friend who likes superheroes.” The other day Rick asked Ezra if he would like a haircut like Ziko’s – sure enough he was all into it…so here is the new Ezra.

New Country ... New Haircut

New Country … New Haircut

Posted in December 2010 | 3 Comments

Mi Casa es Tu Casa

Well we are happy to say that we have found a home for ourselves in San Cristobal de las Casas. We will be about a 15 – 20 min. walk to Rick´s work and 10 ish to downtown. Thanks to the help of MCCers here in Mexico and your prayers we will be settling into our place sometime next week. It has been a good journey these past 2 + months living in various places (10 different beds I count) and we have been blessed by the hospitablity of many. But we are also joyfully looking forward to calling a place our home. Interesetingly at various times one of our kids has asked if we can go home and Rick and I look at each other wondering exactly what they mean, thankfully for the most part they seem content to return to the place whatever their home base is for that moment. Rick was able to travel to San Cristobal de las Casas last week and walk the streets of our new hometown … and apparently we all have much to look forward to in the coming months! Since it is now the beginning of December we will have to quickly unpack a few Christmas items we brought along and catch up on our advent calendars, apparently there even is a place quite close by that sells Christmas trees! Que Suerte!

We will try to post more pictures soon in our photo gallery of the past days … for now if you are at all Google Earth or Map sauvey and/or interested look for – #16 Magistero, 14 de Septiembre, San Cristobal de las Casas, Mexico and you will find a front picture of our house. In this picture it is a kind of blueish color with a few brown doors and both a yellow and red car parked in front. Google earth has great panoramics of this town is you want to journey around a bit too! Perhaps when we know the town better we can direct you to some of our common stomping grounds.

Posted in December 2010 | 1 Comment

The Courage to Learn – An Ode to Helen Keller

Before heading out to Mexico I (Jacquie) told people that I wasn’t starting at ground zero in regards to knowing Spanish but definitely couldn’t carry much of a conversation. I could pick up a few words and say a few simple phrases (in the present tense) but that was about all. Now with 8 – 3 hour classes under my belt at times I am amazed at how much more I can say or understand but also realize that I am still only playing in the waves of a huge ocean.  To give you a specific example, today I began to learn about the imperfect ie. Cuando tenia diez anos…. (when I was 10 years old -not including the accent over the i in tenia) – here I can’t just use the preterit because I am describing a past experience.  Tonight, for my homework I am to write a complete story from my past to tell to my teacher tomorrow. I will stop with all the details now – but I thought I’d give you a more specific look into the halls of spanish class.  I have labeled this blog entry “The Courage to Learn – an Ode to Helen Keller” first because it definitely takes courage to take on learning any language. I would add it takes some courage to study languages like Greek and Hebrew (as is my past experience) simply because it does take work – but learning a language so you can actually speak it I think is on a whole new level. Even Rick, who I would often speak proudly of because of the abilities he has to speak Spanish is coming home with “grammar” headaches. But not only headaches, many ah ha moments as he’s learning new modes of communication that were previously unknown to him. For its one thing to begin to learn how to translate your English thoughts and words into direct corresponding Spanish ones, but eventually if you really want to speak a language you have to learn the added details of how a native speaker would really be able to use the language to express themselves.

In addition, at this point I’d give myself about a 5 out of 10 on the courage factor for I am attempting to speak Spanish to others outside of my class. For example to the “madre” of our house, her family, Rick, or others at our school. But speaking to a stranger, yikes, that’s a level of courage I haven’t quite attained to very often yet especially if it means acquiring some information that is quite important to me or my family… for now I leave those situations up to Rick. I know I’m going to have to go there soon. So by now you might be wondering where is the bit about Helen Keller going to come in. Well here it is… I you don’t know Helen Keller was an extremely courageous and ambitious young lady who was born in the late 1800’s and was the first deafblind person to earn a Bachelor of Arts Degree, not to mention she learns to speak, and learns 3 different languages! She was not deafblind at birth but became so during a illness when she was 1 1/2 years old – can you imagine what that would suddenly be like for Hilary? I have been reading her  autobiographical story and am finding much inspiration and hope from

Helen Keller

her life. She write of her thoughts going into college:”I knew that there were obstacles in the way; but I was eager to overcome them.” And so, in my own journey of learning to speak Spanish (and yes I recognize that they say its probably one of the easiest languages for english speaking people to learn) I too recognize there will be many highs and lows yet to come – moments of excitement that I can speak without thinking so hard and moments that I feel frustrated that I can’t say anything – but like Helen I remain until this point, eager to face the obstacles yet ahead.

For young kids you might want to try – “Helen Keller: Courage in the Dark” by Johanna Hurwitz.

Note: Here are my comments in regards to the courage of my family:

Rick – Really he isn’t shy to try to say anything but I’m not one to give a 10 out too easily. Although I should note I am getting a chance to write this post because he took the kids to the park!

Ezra – As a mother, in regards to his age and all the changes he’s going through I am extremely proud of him and his willingness to also take 3 -  hour long classes each day. As an analytical person I would have to be honest and say he is quite timid to say many words quite yet although he is now courageously saying “gracias” to our “madre” after every meal and if you catch him in the right mood he’ll try others as well especially to Norma, his teacher. Yeah Ezzie!

Hilary – I think i’ve heard Hilary say, gracias, hola, cinco (5) and pan (bread) – pretty good for almost 21 month old!

Posted in November 2010 | 2 Comments

Familiar and Foreign

Muy buenos dias a todos y todas,

For those that may not know, I spent 7 months in Guerrero, Mexico in 1998, completing an internship with MCC doing various agricultural / appropriate technology projects. Those months were perhaps the most formative of any that have shaped my vocational interests.  Now 12 years later I find myself back in Mexico (may I even call it an adopted homeland?), looking forward to connecting more deeply with the people with whom we’ll work and live.

So after the first 2 weeks I am again enjoying some of what was once familiar to me, such as…….

Colour – I find Mexico so rich and alive in colour, and expressed through various elements of its culture – art, houses, floral diversity, and of course the salsas…the vibrancy of colour in these aspects is a good reminder of the beauty and diversity of Mexican culture. Some of the photos below were taken with this blog post in mind, and believe-you-me, I could have included many, many more examples!

Painting of Indigenous women from Oaxaca

El centro en Cuernavaca

Hilary inside one of the many unique rooms of the late Robert Brady residence (now a museum)

Ezra helping show the actual size of this plant's leaf

Family Hospitality – Once again I am living with a host family while attending language school (same one!).  A different scenario this time, as I am just one part of my family of 4.  As well, there are no children in our host home and seemingly few on our block (as such, we hear a lament from Ezra now and then for his Akron playmates), and our hosts have a significantly higher level of material wealth.  While these differences make for some new experiences, several constants remain: the hospitality of the whole family (including Abuela at 96 years old), their enjoyment of children, and their rootedness in their Christian faith.  Perhaps most apparent is the presence, service and blessings of La Mama’, who greets, feeds, cleans, and visits with and generally looks out for us.  And we have been doubly blessed, as not only Senora Maria is a student of the Word, but our Spanish instructor as well.  This makes for good conversation, friendship, and bien practica (Spanish).

Cuernavaca – the city continues to impress me…for having nearly 1 million people its pretty laid back, and has a dignified spirit.  Carrying the title of City of Eternal Spring (actually its name literally means Cow’s Horn, a resort-y type place, kind of like Moose Jaw), its easy for nature-loving types as myself to lose my way finding yet another beautiful public garden (sorry no vegetables).   Indeed a wonderful place to learn Spanish.

One small section of La Catedral in Cuernavaca - built from 1529-1552

Had to put this one in....trees never cease to amaze me

Now this post is getting rather long and I have yet to describe what is foreign, or NEW.  Well there are numerous, but for the moment I will focus on that which draws my attention the most…..

Helping children adjust – while indeed it can be romantic to bring one’s family to another country, another culture, its also a lot of hard work, patience and perseverance (and I’m only in week 2!).  Adding our own new stresses to those of the kids, and it can be complicated to figure out the better ways to allow flow and/or structure to guide the day.  One thing we have observed is that while yes it appears children are like sponges in absorbing language, it may not mean they immediately begin using that new language to converse.  But its also interesting to see Ezra, in moments of unstructured play, blurt out some Spanish words that he’s already absorbed.  And for the record (especially those curious grandparents!) Ezra and Hilary are doing quite well amidst their obvious challenges.  And so once the kids are in bed, our challenge is to switch gears and focus on language learning.

Mi compadre – one other “new” aspect for me this time around is that I am serving with MCC with my partner, companion and wife, Jacquie.  No mushy stuff here, but suffice it to say that a 12-year dream is being fulfilled……

Jacquie in our host home entrance....off to another day at school!

OK, last a few logistics – we’ll be staying in Cuernavaca until Nov 24th, afterwhich we return to Mexico CIty for a MCC team meeting, and then we’ll venture to our assignment location in San Cristobal.  Thanks for your thoughts and prayers.

Posted in November 2010 | 3 Comments

I Ate A Banana (a.k.a. un platano)

So it was as we came off the plane on November 1st that our journey into learning of the Mexican culture began.  It’s not just our ears that will hear different words but all of our senses that will experiences new things, as demonstrated by Ezra’s innocent enough first question when heading out of the airport in our taxi -  “What’s that smell?” Now three days later we have all tried new things –

Hilary driving in a bus, taxi and metro without a car seat – she already is a hard one to keep reigned in!

Ezra -Listening to his new friend Isabel talk to her Daddy in both Spanish and English and already learning which way is derecha (right) and izquierda (left).

Rick – As he recalls his former days as a young MCC intern, making the necessary adjustments to work/life in Mexico married and with 2 children!

Jacquie – Deciding to try eating a banana which I typically don’t like and finding out that these small and firm platanos  here are actually quite yummy.

A display commemorating "Day of the Dead"

Interestingly, we arrived here in Mexico City(did you know it is one of – if not – the largest city in the world at around 23 million) during a prominent cultural holiday. November 2nd is  The Day of the Dead, which as Wikipedia describes it- “a gatherings of family and friends to pray for and remember friends and family members who have died.”

We embarked on a journey with our MCC reps to the Zocalo on this day, and we found ourselves among masses of people also making this trek which I tried to capture somewhat in this picture below.

A Walk Down Cinco de Mayo

While there has been much to take in we have also been thankful for the time we have had with our reps learning practical things like taking the metro, buying groceries, and learning about the work of MCC in Mexico. I (Jacquie) have found myself sometimes happy with how much I understand of the Spanish being spoken around me, and at other times frustrated by my lack of understanding and ability to speak. And so I identify with the many before and those with me who feel somewhat unfriendly in a new cultural surrounding because of one’s inability to carry on a simple conversation. Not to worry this is no different than I expected and am sure it will be many more months before any of this feels at all natural. For now I take solace in the fact that I have at least made many attempts to talk to those around me. I am also thankful for the many aspects of life that carry on as normal – playing with the kids, going to the park, finding various new books of interest in the MCC Guest house library, and managing to cook my family some meals

The MCC Guest House Kitchen

(minus the fact that I set the coffee maker slightly on fire while using the propane stove).  So we close another day of new experiences unsure of what else lies ahead and thankful that all of our clothes we brought to the “Lavandaria” are being wonder fully washed for us and ready to be picked perhaps “manana.”

Posted in October 2010 | Leave a comment

New Hope in the Name of Christ

Well we made it … our two weeks of orientation are complete and already a few of our new friends have begun flying off to their new lands. Here is a photo of all the MCC orientees from these past two weeks that are from or going to places where MCC serves in Latin America or the Caribbean (and two MCC staff people).

Orientees from/going to Countries in Latin America/Caribbean

We have been so blessed by the community around us who share many of the same experiences and thoughts, with each person’s story being unique and just as God directed as our own. At this point we feel like our MCC orientation has given us a good foundation to go out on Monday -  yet we recognize there is still lots to learn along the journey. As I sit here a few key things that come to my mind for us to remember these next months:

  • Be flexible,
  • Embrace the diversity of the people with whom you work alongside and seek to serve,
  • Connect with People – relationships will likely be the avenue to making our biggest impact,
  • Don’t just serve but be willing to show your needs and empower others to  serve you too,
  • Be there – embrace the culture you are in,
  • Take care of yourself – center yourself daily in Christ in whom is our hope and peace.

I include a brief statement I shared at our sending/blessing service this past Friday that focused our attention on “New Hope in the Name of Christ” – MCC theme for this year and our weeks of orientation.

“We are focusing our thoughts today on God as the author and vision of the hope we communally share. We recognize that through the Spirit of Christ, God is already present in the places to which we will soon depart. And while heartache and struggle accompany both ourselves and those who we go seek to serve. In this lies our hope – that God, through the person of Christ, has the desire and ability to make all things new. “

Posted in October 2010 | 1 Comment